embracing grace, an enabling power

Embracing Grace

Are you activating Christ’s grace in your life? Or are you leaving blessings on the table?

There are those who believe that members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints do not believe in grace, that we believe we have to be perfect or work our way to heaven. Or that grace only kicks in after you’ve worked your rear end off. This is a false concept. It is not doctrinal… even though there may even be members who believe it. It is not supported by scripture or by those who truly understand and teach correct doctrine. If I may be so bold, I would like to address this misconception and where it may be coming from and how to gain a testimony of the Grace of Our Savior Jesus Christ.

My stepdaughter teaches children with autism. Her motto is, “If they don’t learn the way we teach, then we change the way we teach.” Obviously, many have not learned the gospel of Jesus Christ the way many have taught it. There are those who, like the Pharisees of old, get caught up in the letter of the law, focus on that, and forget to mention or give proper emphasis to WHO it points to.

The scriptures are replete with an accurate doctrine of grace. One who studies them sees it everywhere.

Also, there are ineffective teachers everywhere. We’re all learning. Unfortunately, we all learn on the people we’re teaching. When our students don’t get it, a teacher (who really wants to be a better teacher) changes the way they teach. They keep tweaking until their students understand.

Everything I’ve learned about grace has come through studying the scriptures, from good teachers/books (like Stephen E. Robinsons, “Believing Christ.”) and apostles/prophets like Paul, James, Nephi and Alma.

But most of all, I have learned about grace by EXPERIENCING IT. I’ve experienced it in two ways:

First, by making really stupid mistakes, coming to Christ, and having HIM give me HIS peace and HIS forgiveness and HIM changing me from the inside out. I never muster the courage to “do better.” He changes my desires. He constantly reveals to me my deep unmet needs that are causing me to believe/think/desire/do things that won’t make me happy (or that are hurting others) and then meets those needs so that my thoughts, desires, and behaviors change.

Second, by doing what He asks me to do, following the Spirit’s promptings and having miracles happen that are far beyond anything I did or my capacity to create.

Grace is an ENABLING power and when we don’t understand it, we’re leaving so many blessings on the table. When we come to Christ in faith, His grace is not only sufficient to SAVE us and take us home, it’s sufficient to TRANSFORM us and CREATE MIRACLES.

Understanding Christ’s atoning grace is a journey… a very personal journey that we each must take one-by-one with HIM. Any attempt to adequately teach it is just that … an attempt. Some people are better teachers than others, but in the end the only perfect Teacher of Grace is the Savior Jesus Christ.

“Wherefore, redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah; for he is full of grace and truth. Behold, he offereth himself a sacrifice for sin, to answer the ends of the law, unto all those who have a broken heart and a contrite spirit; and unto none else can the ends of the law be answered. Wherefore, how great the importance to make these things known unto the inhabitants of the earth, that they may know that there is no flesh that can dwell in the presence of God, save it be through the merits, and mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah, who layeth down his life according to the flesh, and taketh it again by the power of the Spirit, that he may bring to pass the resurrection of the dead, being the first that should rise.” (2 Nephi 2:6-8, Book of Mormon)

stop over-analyzing

Stop Over-analyzing – Day 66: Light the World, Build the Kingdom

Those of us who study the laws of attraction and abundance and energy work often come to believe there is a reason behind EVERYTHING that’s happening amiss in our lives. We become convinced that if things aren’t going our way, if angels aren’t running to keep us from stubbing our toes on every rock, that we must be doing something wrong.

The fact is, we’re living in a fallen world. Bad things happen to good people. I think we need to stop over-analyzing everything. You’re doing your best, keep going, have faith that things will work out. God’s got a happy ending in store for you, and every hero by definition must face some opposition to be a hero.

The important thing is to keep trusting in Jesus Christ. Having faith in Jesus Christ is not faith for a specific outcome. All the faith and trust in the world can’t prevent bad things from happening or keep other people from harming you. Things happen and people have their freedom to choose and many times those aren’t good choices. Faith is not a free pass.

Faith in Jesus Christ is trusting that through everything He will stand beside you, lift you, carry you, lighten your load. And that one day after this mortal life all our tears will be wiped away, all the dead will live again, and all our losses will be made up.

(From “Confidence Rising! Trust Your Heart. Be Yourself. Bless Lives,” Marnie Pehrson Kuhns)

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day,“What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

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Stop taking offense about what other people think and concern yourself more with how you feel about yourself and how God feels about you.

Taking Offense – Day 64: Light the World, Build the Kingdom

In today’s world many become offended. Most of what we hear in the media is about someone being upset about what someone else said or thinks about them. Taking offense has become common place.

There is always going to be someone who doesn’t agree with you, thinks you’re crazy, wrong or foolish for your beliefs or the way you choose to live your life.

At some point we have to realize that all that really matters is what God thinks of us and what we think of ourselves when we look in the mirror. Is the person looking back at you someone you respect? Whom you can trust? Whom you can believe in? Whom you can count on? Most of all is the person looking back at you someone God can trust? Whom God can count on? If so, who else’s opinion matters? When we come to that place of confidence, nothing anyone else can say can harm us. If God be with us, who cares who is against us? Let them say what they will. All is well.

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day,“What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

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why bad things happen to good people

Why Bad Things Happen to Good People – Day 59: Light the World, Build the Kingdom (Year 2)

Have you ever asked wondered why bad things happen to good people? I’ve spent quite a bit of time pondering that one. I learned something important while writing my very first fiction novel …Character development. Each of us is the hero of our own story and a hero is only as strong as his enemy. Where would Harry Potter be without Voldemort? Where would Dorothy be without the Wicked Witch? Would Colonel Doolittle and his Raiders be the heroes they were without the Japanese?

We only grow through opposition and struggle. I believe we are here to discover the greatness within us and the only chance we have of discovering it is to face the opposition that brings it out. Also, every time we set out to create something bigger and better in our lives, we are attempting to create more order in our world. You can’t take a closet, a home, a life, or a world to a higher level of order without creating some chaos. Chaos is part of the creative cycle.

 

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

 

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beyond victimhood

Beyond Victimhood – Day 57: Light the World, Build the Kingdom

171 years ago (July 24, 1847) pioneers entered the Salt Lake Valley. An extermination order by the governor of Missouri drove members of The Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (whom Missourians derogatorily called “Mormons”) out of that state.

Their women raped and people tortured and murdered in the wake of this unconstitutional decree, the LDS people fled to build a refuge on the swamp land of Commerce IL. They transformed the malaria-infested marsh into the beautiful city of Nauvoo. By the time they were done, Nauvoo was larger than Chicago of the day.

A few years later, their leader (Joseph Smith Jr) and his brother Hyrum were falsely imprisoned and murderer by a mob in Carthage Jail.

Forced to flee their beautiful Nauvoo as mobs burned their temple, members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints fled with wagons and handcarts across the nation, traveling 1500 miles to their desert destination. One explorer, having been to Utah, said he’d give them $100 if they could grow even a bushel of corn there.

Through blood, sweat and tears the LDS people transformed the desert into a rose and continue to dot the landscape with gorgeous, glowing temples to their God.

If any people deserved to wallow in victimhood, give up, and abandon hope, these men, women and children did. But they carried on, true to their faith, devoted to their God. Out of their sacrifice, miracles continue to flow.

The LDS pioneers are testaments to the power available to those who understand the Law of Polarity. This universal law states that if something is a little bad, there is a little good in it. If something is catastrophic, there is something phenomenal inside it.

Are you looking for the phenomenal inside your hardships? It is there!

 

Featured Image: Mary Fielding Smith and Joseph F. Smith Crossing the Plains, by Glen S. Hopkinson (62608); GAK 412; GAB 101; Primary manual 5-49; Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith (1998), xiv, 21–22

neediness vs trusting God

Neediness vs Trust – Day 53: Light the World, Build the Kingdom (Year 2)

There is something about losing almost everything and completely releasing a dream that allows you to come back to it with the empowerment of choice rather than neediness. Neediness is never a good energy in which to be.

The biggest lesson I learned from compounding losses was that nothing is ever lost. Matter/energy is neither created nor destroyed. It simply changes forms. What leaves your life re-enters in a different form, perhaps scattered throughout dozens of people, places or things.

When I fully grasped that I had everything I needed in this moment, I knew I’d have everything I’d need in the next, and the next and the next. I finally … FINALLY trusted God. As long as I stay in that place of observant gratitude (seeing everything in this moment), I no longer operate from “neediness” but from contented trust.

With that kind of trust, miracles can happen. And they do.

(This blog post is an excerpt from my soon-to-be-released book, Confidence Rising!)

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

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all in your perspective

All In Your Perspective: Day 50 – Light the World, Build the Kingdom

The nature of circumstances are all in your perspective. Things are neither good or bad, but what thinking makes them so.  You can be in what you feel is a place of lack (lack of answers, lack of necessities, or lack of the things you want) and a shift in perspective can change everything.

blackberry cobblerMy husband David Kuhns joins me in this video to talk about our experience picking blackberries. We thought we’d found all the ripe wild blackberries there were, but when we came at the bushes from down below and looked up, we found more. And when we looked at them in a different light, we found even more.

It’s kind of funny, because after I watched the video we’d recorded, I noticed we talk about how we found “a bunch” more blackberries. Then, we hold up this little container that’s half full. When we were picking, it felt like we found a lot of blackberries. When you’re foraging… “a lot” is relative. It’s all in your perspective.

When you’re going through a time of lack, you’re more likely to fall to your knees, looking up for answers. When you do, and you find the peace or answers you seek, you tend to be a lot more thankful for those answers. Someone else may look at what you found, or hear about what you found, and say, “That’s not much.” But it sure meant a lot to you in your moment of need!

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

time and season

Time and Season – Day 39: Light the World, Build the Kingdom (Year 2)

There is a time and season for every purpose. We don’t harvest in the same season that we plant. Every dream or goal has a gestation period.

Back in August of 2010, God gave me an understanding that my life was going to change. A year later, this feeling that things could be better and would be better became a clear big vision that propelled me forward.

But, honestly, all my working toward that vision for several years looked fruitless. At one point, it all fell apart and seemed impossible. Then in the middle of 2017, it started falling into place FAST — like the monster zucchini showing up in my garden.

God’s timing is rarely our timing. I wanted all of this to happen a lot earlier, yet as much as it has taken shape and is falling together, the full picture still is yet to unfold. Rarely does the fruition of a big vision occur simultaneously with the inception of the vision or the goal. It takes time, like planting a garden. Everything has a gestation period and a season.

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

 

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perspectives - blind men and the elephant

How’s Your Perspective? Day 33 – Light the World, Build the Kingdom Year 2

Whether we’re debating over politics or religion, or how things should run in a community or a family, most of us are like the story of the blind men and the elephant. Each “saw” the elephant through his own limited perspective. One said it was a fan, another a tree, another a wall, another a snake, another a rope. None of them were right, the truth was somewhere in the composite.

Most of the time, the challenges we face in our lives, families and society can only be solved when we see through multiple angles and perspectives — ideally through God’s eyes, because He is the only one who sees the full truth.

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

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going your way

When Things Aren’t Going Your Way – Day 19: Light the World, Build the Kingdom (Year 2)

Do you get frustrated when things aren’t going your way? Today I’m sharing why things may not be unfolding as you want them to and what you can do when you’re bumping up against challenges and problems on a path you felt inspired to travel.

How the Challenge Works

Step 1: Ask God each day, “What is one thing I can do to light the world and build the kingdom today?”

Step 2: ACT upon whatever He leads you to do. Go through the day EXPECTING for opportunities to arise.

Step 3: Document somewhere — in your private journal or on your favorite social media platform.

Step 4: Share! If you share publicly, please use our hash tags: #BuildTheKingdom and #LightTheWorldNow so I can cheer you on! If you’re going to be documenting privately, I recommend sharing your experience with a close friend or accountability partner. There is power in the sharing.

For ongoing support and a place to share, please join our Facebook group.

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